FAQ
Frequently asked questions
About Noxette, privacy and safety, and using it as a dominant or a submissive.
About Noxette
What is Noxette?
Noxette is a planner for couples and groups who live or play with a D/s (dominance and submission) dynamic. The dominant plans sessions, remote tasks and chastity; the submissive sees what is meant for them, checks tasks off, sends proof and rates sessions afterwards.
Who is it for?
For consenting adults (18+) in a D/s relationship – from couples who play once a week to 24/7 dynamics. It works for any gender and any combination: dom and sub roles are what matter, not who you are.
Is Noxette explicit?
The app is about intimate topics, but it contains no pornographic pictures or videos. Positions are shown as simple line drawings unless you upload your own photos, which stay private.
What does it cost?
Noxette is free – the planner, live sessions, chastity, tasks, rewards and encrypted pictures cost nothing. Optional plans (Premium and Ultra) only add more AI requests per day – monthly, yearly or once for life; see the pricing page. Subscriptions can be cancelled at any time. No ads, and your data is never sold.
Is there a phone app?
Noxette is a web app that works in every modern browser and can be installed on the home screen of your phone, where it opens like an app – with push notifications. On iPhone and iPad: open it in Safari, tap Share → “Add to Home Screen”.
Will I get notifications?
Yes – everything lands in the bell in the app, and with push switched on it reaches your phone or computer too: proof, requests, missed tasks, a safeword. Quiet hours hold push back at night; a safeword always gets through.
Privacy & safety
Who can see my data?
Only you and the people you are connected with: a dom sees the subs they own, a sub sees their own owner. Kink lists are private unless you choose otherwise. Proof pictures and videos are sealed end to end on the phone before they are sent: only the sub and their owner can open them – not even we can. Our team manages accounts but has no view of your kinks, sessions or proofs in the app.
Do you know my password?
No. Your password never leaves your device: the app turns it into two keys there – one to log in with, one that locks your pictures. We only store a hash of the login key. That is also why nobody can recover your pictures if you forget your password – your partner keeps their own copy, though.
I forgot my password – what now?
Choose “Forgot your password?” on the sign-in page: we email you a link to set a new one (your email address must be confirmed). Your account and everything in it stays – only pictures sealed with the old password can no longer be opened with your copy; your partner keeps their own copy and can share them again.
Can I protect my account with two-factor sign-in?
Yes – in your profile under Security: a code from an authenticator app (Google Authenticator, 1Password, Aegis …) or a code by email, plus recovery codes for emergencies. You also get an alert by email whenever someone signs in from a new device, the password or email address changes, or there are many wrong passwords.
Can I sign in with Google, Apple or X?
Where offered, yes. You still choose a password when you sign up: it seals your pictures end to end, and you enter it once per device to open them. You can connect or remove a provider in your profile at any time.
Are there trackers, ads or analytics?
No. Noxette only sets the cookies it needs – to keep you logged in and to recognise your device for security alerts – and loads no scripts, fonts or images from other companies.
Can I delete my account?
Yes, at any time, in your profile under “Your data”. Everything is deleted immediately. You can download everything Noxette stores about you there as well.
Does Noxette use AI?
Only when you ask it to. The built-in Smart suggestions are calculated by Noxette itself and have no limit. If you switch to AI, the relevant parts of the plan (tasks, ratings, the time and mood you aim for, your wishes for the wizard) are sent to our AI provider, named in the privacy policy – never names, notes or pictures. Everyone gets a few AI requests a day for free; Premium and Ultra add more.
How does Noxette keep scenes safe?
It never suggests anything on either partner's limit list, warns about things worn too long, asks for warm-ups before intense play, checks that restraints can be anchored, and ends generated sessions with everything removed and aftercare. It cannot replace talking, a safeword and knowing what you do – please read the safety notes of each task.
For dominants
How do I add my sub?
Your sub signs up themselves, as a submissive – with their own email and password. They then see their collar with a padlock: scan it with your phone camera (or type the code under it in My subs → Add a sub), and the lock closes – they are yours.
Do I have to enter all my toys first?
No. There is a large library of toys, outfits, furniture and tasks to add from – with one tap, or everything at once. Then remove what you don't own.
Can Noxette plan a session for me?
Yes. The session wizard asks a few questions – who, which vibe, how long, which toys are at hand – and builds a complete, checked session. Choose AI and add your wishes in your own words (“lots of teasing, ends with her on her knees”); the result is checked against your rules and limits, and Smart fix repairs anything that doesn't fit. After a session, “Same again, with variations” keeps what your sub loved and swaps what they didn't. Every step stays editable.
Why does Noxette ask about body parts?
So it never plans something that cannot work: no cage without a penis, no fingering without a vagina. It is optional – each part can stay “not said”, and then nothing is filtered. Only you and your partner see it.
What are Subcoins?
Your sub earns them for tasks, sessions, check-ins, journal entries and subchievements, and loses some for missed tasks – you set the numbers. They spend them in the shop you stock: from “Receive a compliment” to a spin of the task wheel or time off chastity.
What happens if I unlock the cage during a session?
The lock is only opened – the chastity timer keeps running. Lock again during the session and the lockup continues with the same release date. If the session ends while the cage is open, the lockup ends at the moment it was opened.
For submissives
What do I see as a sub?
Your rules, today's tasks, planned sessions with the list of things to prepare, your chastity status and the sessions you can rate. You never see your owner's private notes.
Can I suggest tasks?
Yes, if your owner allows it: send a suggestion and your owner decides whether it goes into the library. You can also keep a wish list and send requests.
Can I say no?
Always. Noxette is a tool for planning consensual play. Your limits are respected by the planner – and a safeword ends everything, whatever the plan says. Away from your owner you can use it in the app: stop a task, pause the day or unlock chastity in an emergency. It never costs Subcoins and never breaks a streak.
Can I keep a journal?
Yes – shared with your owner (who can answer) or private, just for you. There is also a wish list and you can send requests like “May I be released early?”, which your owner grants or denies.