Tutorials / Basics
Kinks, limits and matching
Rate kinks, set hard limits and decide who can see them – and how Noxette uses them.
Both partners rate kinks on My kinks from one to five stars, and mark limits.
What the ratings do
- Suggestions favour what both of you like.
- A kink on either partner's limit list is never suggested, and tasks with it are marked in the planner.
- Ratings of past sessions (your sub rates each step afterwards) count as well.
Who sees your list
Choose private, owner (your dom, or your subs) or public. The planner uses a sub's ratings even when they are private – without showing them.
Talk about limits before you play. A list is a good start for that conversation, not a replacement.